Understanding your body is the first step to enjoying your sexuality

Wet Dreams: A wet dream is when you ejaculate while you’re asleep. Wet dreams are a normal part of growing up because when you go through puberty, your body starts producing the male hormone testosterone. Once your body makes testosterone, it can now release sperm, and this usually happens while you’re having a dream about sex, and sometimes even when you’re not. You may not even remember the dream and you don’t have to masturbate to have a wet dream. In short, wet dreams are normal part of growing up, don’t feel bad about it.

Erections and Ejaculations: During puberty stage, you start to get erections. This is when your penis temporarily grows and hardens. Erections are when the tissue inside your penis fills up with blood and this can be sparked by messages from your brain which can be due to sexual stimulation (arousal). Ejaculation is when semen comes out of the penis after it has been aroused or stimulated. It is a normal part of the male sexual response cycle.

Male sex organs: The male reproductive organs located outside the body that play their role in the process of human reproduction includes, the penis, the urethra, the scrotum (balls). Unlike women, the majority of these organs are located outside the body.
The organs have various roles to play which include;
To produce, maintain, and transport sperm and semen (protective fluid).
To discharge sperm within the female reproductive tract during sex.
To produce and secrete male sex hormones called testosterone responsible for maintaining the male reproductive system.

Types of Orgasms: 

Do you know there are two types of orgasms for guys? I bet you didn’t. having orgasms doesn’t necessarily mean to ejaculate. In fact, orgasm and ejaculation are two different things as they are controlled by different parts of the brain and nervous system.

  1. Orgasm with ejaculation: this is the typical one most guys are aware of. Here, the guy has an orgasm and releases sperm. This can occur when he is having sex or while masturbating.
  2. Orgasm without ejaculation: this is also called dry orgasm. This happens when he is having wet dreams. This could even spur multiple orgasms within minutes of one another just like ladies’ experience.


The average size of a man’s penis is between 6.3 to 7 inches. Although they are some with bigger sizes just so you know, being smaller isn’t a defect.

There are different types of penis, the womb shifters, the ‘are you in yet’ etc. but everyone has a category even the balls are unique in their own way and nothing one should feel ashamed of.

If it is big and long that it can get to her throat, doesn’t mean it can work well, if it is so small, that the lady doesn’t feel it enter, doesn’t mean it can’t work well, so whatever category you are, make sure to be proud and focus on the main, which is making it work well.

Stick around to find out all the info you need to know as guys about your penis sizes and ladies, stick around to find out more as well cos I know you are also on this page, this piece is also for you, so you can be prepared when the pants go down.


  1. Banana Shaped

“Take banana till you go yo”. This shape of penis faces upwards when erect. He’s like a banana, and you know what? Bananas are awesome. And penises that are shaped like them can seem especially made to hit your G-spot, so if you have this, Congrats.

  1. Hammer Shaped

Without the prongs though, So I’m not sure why they used a hammer to represent this form of the penis. This is when the foreskin is incredibly much. As you might expect, with the hammer penis, the shaft is fairly thin while the head is largely giving it a hammer appearance. This can also be found on other penis types, such as the banana.

  1. C Shape

This kind of penis faces downwards when erect. This can be natural, or it can be caused by accidents. In some cases, it can even happen when men find themselves having to stow away their penises in an effort to hide their erections. This kind of penis can only hit a lady’s A-spot though, so you need to work extra to please her.


  1. Mushroom Shaped

Not to be confused with the hammer penis, the mushroom is typically smaller. It has a stocky appearance and a very wide, umbrella-like head. This penis is short but the good part is the lady can feel it when it’s about entering and when it eventually enters. So, it still has hope more than the pencil size penis.

  1. Pencil Shaped

This type of penis is particularly straight with very little to differentiate between the head and the shaft. Apparently, due to their above average length, penetration from this kind of penis can hit the cervix, causing pain for the lady. It’s long but the lady wouldn’t really feel it because it is too slim to be true.


  1. Carrot/Cucumber Shaped

This is what is called, ‘ELEYIN GIDI GAN’. For this type, the head is a lot smaller than the shaft. It is believed that deep penetration is where it’s at for this penis and it works well with most positions. Most ladies like this kind as they can feel before it enters, when it enters and when it’s coming out. It leaves a lasting impression for the lady.


  1. Veiny Penis

Ewwww or Oh!? Well, all penises have veins, but they are some that no matter what, whether erect or flaccid, always have this look. It could come in any shape or size, but I just had to drop this here.

Keeping Clean

As these parts are located outside the body, it is good to know how to take proper care of them to prevent infections and foul smell.

  • Ensure you wash your entire junk area regularly with soap and water. Make sure you don’t leave any part unwashed.
  • Shave your pubic hair regularly to avoid bacteria and germs from hiding in those parts
  • Make sure to wash your boxers or briefs regularly to avoid infections
  • After the long day, free your junk at night, don’t sleep with briefs. Let air get into the area to avoid accumulating sweat
  • Change your boxers or briefs regularly as well and make sure to wear clean dry cotton boxers or briefs