It’s not easy coming up with a good pick up line especially since some ladies tend to disregard the hard work and choose to play hard to get. But should this discourage us? NO. Here are the best pick up lines to use in getting that lady but make sure you practice as the execution is what matters. Don’t go and use all these at once and come crying to me that it didn’t work o. Show her some confidence and act like you invented the lines.
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Lady smiling as she chats with a male friend she met at the bar last night
- EXCUSE ME, IS THIS SEAT TAKEN?
You see a lady seated alone in a restaurant, club or any hang out spot and your spirit has practically left you to gawk at her closely. Guy, just man up, follow your spirit and walk up to her and say, “Is this seat taken?” Make sure there is actually a vacant seat next to her o, don’t go and do copy and paste and end up looking dumb biko.
- WOULD YOU LIKE TO DANCE?
Okay, you are in a club and your eyes located a stunner, how would you get that stunner to notice you as well? Simple, walk up to her and ask for a dance. Don’t go ruining your chances by asking for her phone number just yet, trust me, you won’t get it. Take it a step after another, after the dance, you strike up a conversation like, “you are such a good dancer, I would like to learn from you” or something related. Then after a while, tell her you are leaving and ask for her number. Now that is how it is done.
- DO YOU HAVE A PENCIL BECAUSE I WANT TO ERASE YOUR PAST AND WRITE OUR FUTURE?
Sounds cliché? Well, as much as you might think it does, if carried out perfectly, you would get her blushing before thinking of ignoring you. Ladies love guys who can make them smile, blush or laugh and though there are some lines attributed to plain pick up lines, choose a funny one she would have no choice but to blush to. She would know you are being funny and want to have a conversation, so make it seem like you really are just being funny at the same time you are interested in her.
- DON’T YOU FIND THIS PLACE BORING?
This applies mostly to parties’ you guys were invited to, you have to be sure she’s bored though, which you can tell from her expression or the fact that she’s alone. Walk up to her and pop the question, “don’t you find this place boring?” she would respond immediately. She probably was just waiting for someone who shared same ideology with her and you having same thoughts with her would make her feel you guys have a connection already. You can follow up by asking if she prefers some other place as you could take her anywhere else.
- I JUST THOUGHT YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT YOU HAVE A REALLY NICE…
…pair of shoes, make-up, outfit. Ladies love compliments so look for something to compliment her with. That would make her feel you appreciate her innocently, so stick to what I said and don’t go complimenting her body because that is just a major minus for you. Don’t just stop at the compliments, follow up with questions, where did you get it? did you make it yourself? Are you a make-up artist? That would make the lady feel you really are interested in something more than just a one-night stand.
