Why ‘cum’ alone when you can ‘cum’ together. Always remember, a couple that ‘cums’ together, stays together. Find the right spots that can enhance your sex life.



His Hair: Run your fingers through his hair, massage gently, reach for the scalp and tickle it. Rub your hands gently through from one spot to another. This releases a lot of real good endorphins into the body.

His Ear: Nibble, suck, caress, kiss the earlobes. This is very much arousing, you can blow into the ear gently and a few times while still licking the ear. Whisper into his ears all the crazy things you want to do to him. Tell him how much he turns you on and how much you want him.

His Lips: Kiss him gently on the lips before going in for the tongue. From short kisses to long kisses, but try not to make it soggy. Play with his tongue, short bites here and there on the lips. Lip kisses are a major turner as they are words in the form of kisses so tell him all you want and want to do to him but not in words but kisses.

His Neck: Oh! The vampire spot. The neck is a good spot to press play on fun. The guy would feel so vulnerable just make sure to do it right. A good massage, kiss, caress, stroke and love bites would make him want to scream in want of you.

His Nipples: The nipples are not just a turner for the ladies; they are also a major turner for the guys. Pinch it, bite it gently, suck it but in all you are doing, make sure not to bite too hard and pinch out of control. As much as a good nipple rub can turn him on, a bad one can turn him off faster than it takes to turn him on.

His Big John:  This is a guy’s main pleasure zone. This is another area that can make a guy very vulnerable. Just gently tease his penis especially the tip; this can cause him to almost ejaculate. Stroke the penis, kiss it, suck it slowly before going in for the deep throat, guys love this. But don’t forget the balls, this are also very sensitive. Play with it gently, you can also lick it before going back to the penis but be sure to have enough saliva for this act as it is needed for maximum pleasure. Slow, fast rounds into the mouth, in and out and he would sure want to orgasm after this.

His Tummy: Tease him slowly by kissing him from north to south. Lick every part of his tummy, caress it, yes! Your fingers can also help with the magic.  From the tummy to the waist line and back to the belly button. This escalates the mood for him, you can also tickle him just to spice it up if you want something more extreme.


His Back: Give him that soothing massage that makes him drop all his guard. Starting from the shoulders gently going down to other areas of his back, this helps relieve tension. Caress, lick, kiss and love bite your way down his back. You can choose to use oil to ease the massage and give him that extra sensation.



Her ear: Whisper sweet nothings into her ear, breath softly into her ear to get her aroused. Tell her how attractive she is while you playfully lick her ear and plant a few kisses behind and in front. But be careful not to pour all your saliva on the ear, gently lick in circles, bite softly, suck while saying sexual things to her, she sure would wiggle in want of you.

Her lips: This is the most visible part where you can easily get kissed. Some people love it gentle while others love it wild and passionate. The kisses can be short or long depending on the mood. The kisses can be with or without the tongue. Kissing is very arousing and can help turn on your buttons but make sure your breath is fresh, you can take a mint just before you exercise your tongue. Try it out but make sure to stop for a couple of breaths if you are going in for a long one.

Her neck: This part is super sensitive. This is where the jugular vein is located, where predators love to attack and also where the vampires crave. When kissed, your whole body comes to life even with the shortest of kisses. It has that dangerous sexy vibe. Just before you go into the deed, be sure to arouse her with a kiss or multiple kisses on the neck and you would be sure to get a response that would turn you both on. You can do with and without the tongue, they can both do the trick.

Her Breasts and Nipples: The breasts are very sensitive and are seen as a sexual part of the body. No matter the size of the breasts or nipples, they still maintain a high level of sensitivity.

Make sure to kiss the nipples softly, suck on it while fondling the breasts gently to give her that extreme sensation even while kissing her on the lips, don’t fail to stroke and massage her breasts. That is a major turn on.

Her Tummy: Who doesn’t like a belly rub? Kiss, caress, lick and taunt her. Make your fingers run slowly down her belly, Tickle that tummy, under the breasts, make her scream but don’t let her go. But in all your tummy tickling, don’t forget the belly button. This very small button is mighty when it comes to giving her that fantastic sensual feel. It is the perfect icing on the cake sexually though.

Her Back: Give her that soothing massage not the back breaking kind, the one that sends her on mind blowing trips. From the shoulders to the back gently down the spine, slow circles, throw in a few kisses here and there. The best part is she can’t see you or know what you are going to do next, so make sure to surprise her with a few love bites while also licking her. You can also tickle her in between to give that extra sensation. Massage can be done with or without oil but the oil makes it more relaxing and easy for you to move around her.

Her Inner Thigh: The nerves present here are extremely sensitive so stroke her thigh then gently kiss it. You can move from one thigh to the other but not in haste. Take your time, remember, you want to pleasure her so build up the suspense rather than rushing. Stay steady and watch her tremble as this is close to her private part.

Her Butt:  This part of the body gets ignored most times. The butt should be tapped, squeezed, spanked, playfully though. The butt is also a sensitive part of the body. The butt can even be massaged and kissed. For some ladies, a good spanking can turn them on before and even during the deed.

Her Punani: Kiss and suck on her clit, lick it all over, slowly. Pull and tug on the vulva with your teeth, gently, don’t bite it off. Stick your tongue deep in it, add a finger, then two fingers, and go at a steady pace. Flick your tongue fast up and down her entire clit. Now her legs would sure tremble.

Her Feet: Foot rubs? Check. After that long day, this gives you the complete relaxation, so far the feet are clean so as not to turn the partner off. So make sure to wash the feet before that foot play. Just play with her feet, gently rub, kiss, suck, massage. Nibble her toes one after the other, tickle her after that round, Trust me, she sure would return the favor.